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~Bring the deceased into our care
~Refrigeration while in our care
~File Death Certificate with State
~File California Permit For Disposition
~Dresssing and Casketing of Deceased
~Transportation to cemetery
~Graveside service

~Bring the deceased into our care
~Refrigeration while in our care
~File Death Certificate with State
~File California Permit For Disposition
~20GA steel casket in a choice of six colors
~Dressing and Casketing of Deceased
~Transportation to cemetery
~Graveside service


​We have over Fifty years combined of funeral service serving families in Southern California

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Many times when making funeral arrangements there are questions about funeral expenses, how to plan a funeral, the cost of cremation, memorial service ideas and the choice of mortuary or mortuaries. A licensed funeral director will be able to help you with funeral cost, the selection of a casket, urn, cemetery and funeral flower arrangements. The funeral home can offer funeral planning, green burial, natural burial, burial vaults, a memorial with dignity, embalming and the use of a hearse. Funeral homes will have a choice of cremation urns, which are urns for human ashes, and keepsake urns, which holds a smaller amount of cremated remains. What is the average cost of a funeral and how much does a cremation cost are commonly asked questions. They are influenced by casket prices, the cremation services you select, and the city and county you are located in. Our General Price List is available freely on this page. Please call or email for more information.

Our mission is to serve the community by providing meaningful funeral experiences at a reasonable cost. From traditional services to simple arrangements, we strive to accommodate your needs with dignity and compassion.Locally owned and operated with over fifty years of combined experience. Contact us anytime. We're here to help you.
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$795  simple cremation $2195 veterans burial special $2880 graveside service
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Huntington Beach Cremation Services

by South Coast Family Funeral Services on 10/05/17

When searching the internet for a Huntington Beach Funeral Home or Huntington Beach Funeral Homes there will be many choices, some of which will not be in Huntington Beach.  Be prepared to see paid ads for out of the area service providers.

Online Arrangements

by South Coast Family Funeral Services on 08/29/17

We now offer online arrangements.  You can make all arrangements through our website.  Check it out.

ONLINE Ordering

by South Coast Family Funeral Services on 07/09/17

We now are offering ONLINE ordering of your funeral services.

Flag Post

by South Coast Family Funeral Services on 06/14/17


June 08, 2017 FeaturedFuneral Etiquette posted by Sarah Loghry


The United States holds the service of those who protect our country in very high regard. One of the most symbolic ways we show our appreciation is by incorporating the American flag into the traditions and rituals of military and police funerals. The distinctive stars and stripes are a symbol of patriotism, bravery and history. Such a powerful symbol comes with its own unique traditions and funeral etiquette.

Nicknamed “Old Glory,” it is believed that the first American flag was designed by a New Jersey Congressmen and sewn by the famous Betsy Ross. On June 14, 1777, less than one year after the United States declared independence from Great Britain, the Continental Congress (a forefather of today’s Congress) declared the stars and stripes as the official American flag. Exactly 172 years later, President Harry S. Truman commemorated June 14 as national Flag Day. Up until 1960, Congress changed the size and shape of the official flag to make room for all 50 states.

Not only does each star stand for a state and each stripe stand for one of the 13 original colonies, but the colors are also symbolic. Red symbolizes hardiness and valor, white stands for purity and innocence and blue represents vigilance, perseverance and justice. As Flag Day approaches, learn more about the history behind some of America’s funeral traditions featuring flags.


When the American flag is used during a ceremony for a serviceman or woman, there are several rules suggested by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) to honor and respect the deceased.

  • A flag should not be lowered into a grave or touch the ground.
  • A flag should never be used as a covering for a statue or monument.
  • A flag should never be used in such a way that will allow it to be torn, dirtied or damaged.
  • A flag should not have anything placed on it, attached to it or marked on it.
  • A flag should never be used to hold or carry anything.
  • Any flag that is worn, torn or dirtied should no longer be publicly displayed but privately destroyed.
  • A draped flag should be held over the casket by the pallbearers and, immediately after the sounding of “Taps,” should be folded in the correct way.

There is history behind why the American flag is folded in such a precise manner. Each fold has a different meaning and those meanings are based on a set of traditional Christian principles. The origins of this procedure are mostly unknown, but some sources suggest it may have been the Gold Star Mothers of America or an Air Force chaplain who first used this process to honor Veterans.

The American Legion states that the blue field of the flag that is left showing during the folding program stands for honor and represents the states that Veterans served. When a flag is fully folded, it is often referred to as “looking like a cocked hat,” just like the hats worn by soldiers serving under General George Washington during the Revolutionary War.


The tradition of covering a deceased Veteran with an American flag became common in the late 1700s during the Napoleonic wars. Flags were originally used to cover the deceased on a battlefield so that both sides could more easily identify them. Today, this tradition is no longer associated with battle but used to remind family and friends of the deceased’s service to the country.

Today, the VA lists how the American flag should be displayed when a decedent is placed in a casket:

  • Closed casket: the flag should be draped on the casket so that the union (the blue field) is at the head and over the left shoulder of the deceased.
  • Half couch (open): the flag should be placed in three layers so the blue field will be the top fold next to the open portion of the casket on the deceased’s left.
  • Full couch (open): the flag should be folded in the traditional triangular shape and placed in the center part of the head panel of the casket cap, above the left shoulder of the deceased.

In the case of cremation, a flag that has been folded into the traditional triangle can be displayed next to the cremated remains during a service.

The VA provides flags to Veterans who meet their qualifications of service. Funeral professionals can help families with the process of receiving a military-standard American flag by filling out the proper form. Flags are usually distributed at United States Postal Service offices and VA regional offices. However, they will only provide one flag per Veteran, so families wishing to have more than one should work with their local funeral home to acquire additional flags.


Each service branch of the American military has a different speech when presenting the flag to the deceased’s family. Almost all of them are presented on behalf of the President of the United States and the country. This practice is an important part of the military honors process.


Flag etiquette for funerals of fallen police officers stems from the American Civil War when returned soldiers would join their local police force. Many police officers’ funerals follow the same flag guidelines as military funerals. Some use the flag of their police department with, or instead of, the American flag. Generally, the police department’s chief will make the call when it comes to these practices. Funerals of firefighters and EMS personnel can follow similar flag practices as military and police funerals; however, these traditions are much newer and are still evolving.

Understanding how the American flag is used during funeral services is an important part of respecting fallen and retired military personnel and their families. These honors can mean the world to a family who is experiencing one of the worst days of their life.

The Talk Of A Lifetime

by South Coast Family Funeral Services on 06/12/17


May 30, 2017 Have the Talk of a Lifetime posted by Sarah Loghry


As I’ve gotten older, I have realized that there are a lot of things about my extended family that I don’t know. Being the oldest child of my grandparents’ youngest daughter and the fifth of seven grandkids leaves a lot of room for little family facts to slip by. Just this weekend, I finally learned how I was related to someone I have heard about my entire life. Before then, I never fully understood why we planted flowers at their gravesite each Memorial Day.

As these little bits of information come out about people in my life, I’ve realized that I didn’t know many details about my mom and dad’s lives before I was born. I’ve heard a few college stories here and there and stories with messages in them that pertain to my current stage of life, but I didn’t feel like I knew who they were.

Luckily, with a little convincing and the promise of taking her out to lunch, my mom agreed to participate in Homesteaders’ brand-new video series based on the Have the Talk of a Lifetime®campaign from the Funeral and Memorial Information Council (FAMIC).

Through their consumer awareness campaign, FAMIC provides resources to funeral professionals to help community members from all over the country sit down with their families and talk. With a tagline like, “Life. There’s a lot to talk about,” it’s no wonder their resources are bringing families together from all walks of life.

For this video series, we focused on FAMIC’s Have the Talk of a Lifetime® conversation card deck, which features 50 thought-inspiring questions aimed at getting to the heart of life’s most meaningful experiences. My mom and I had the chance to answer the question, “What event(s) in our nation’s history had an impact on you and how?” My mom’s immediate answer surprised me. She said that the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001, impacted her the most. She discussed how she found out about the attacks and how the aftermath affected our family when we traveled to Disney World three months later.

Since I was in elementary school when it happened, I didn’t truly understand the event until I was much older. Even so, we had never talked about why that moment in American history had impacted both of us so much. I had no idea that there was a reason that Disney World was so empty or that my dad, who works in safety and security, was on high alert during the entire vacation.

My mom is a strong lady. Not much can rattle her or my dad. However, one thing that she said during the video will stick with me: “That day, I just needed everyone to be close.”

Since starting this project, my parents and I have taken on a few other questions from the deck as well. I feel as though I’m learning more about who they are as people, instead of just as parents. Since I started at Homesteaders, I have been much more open to discussing end-of-life wishes with my family, and these cards are just an extension of learning about how my parents want to be remembered when they’re gone.

The first of our Have the Talk of a Lifetime® videos is live today on our website. Make sure to bookmark that page and check back often, because we will be releasing a new video with a new question once a month. The newest video featuring my coworker, Danielle, and her dad is a must see, and you’ll be able to watch the video with my mom and I when it premieres at the end of July.

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